A Nigerian woman has sparked widespread discussions online after exposing a man who allegedly disguised himself as a painter to get her contact information, only to later reveal that he offered sexual services.
The incident came to light when user @dammiedammie35 shared a video on the social media platform X (formerly Twitter), which included a recorded phone conversation between the woman and the man. The video quickly went viral, drawing intense reactions and debates across social media.
According to the woman, she decided to give the man her phone number after he introduced himself as a professional painter and artist. She explained that she was interested in renovating her home at the end of the year and had intended to discuss painting services with him. However, she was shocked when he called her only 15 minutes later and began advertising his unexpected “side business.”
During the call, the man shamelessly described his sexual services in detail, stating: “Do you know that I know how to chop pussy very well? I get paid for it sometimes, I’m very good in it. I told you because you have a very beautiful and attractive skin. Maybe sometimes you feel bad or if you’re low, you can just call me, I can do it for you. I’m very very good, you’ll enjoy it. Even if you don’t have money to pay me, what matters is for you to enjoy it to your satisfaction just to make you feel sweet and comfortable.”
In response, the visibly shocked woman confronted him, saying: “You told me that you paint, that’s why I gave you my contact because I’m trying to paint my house at the end of the year.”
The conversation, recorded and shared online, sparked massive outrage and amusement in equal measure, as many social media users questioned the man’s boldness and ethics, while others speculated about the woman’s motives for recording and posting the call.
See some reactions below:
@retweet_repostz: “Na lie. Maybe this woman made advances at him first because no one will just call you and start telling you all these bullshit without an earlier encounter.”
@ObaOfVibes: “Believe her at your own risk, she could have made an advance to him while he was in her house and then the guy tried to fall for her tricks and played along.”
@RoiyConsult: “Nigeria men no get shame at all, if we begin open people DM and call conversations, war go start.”
@Elumhi: “He is just advertising his side hustle 🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣. This is actually a way some guys get their sugar mummies. Forget the recording she no go tell us when she go later patronize him when the need arise.”
@WaheedAyinla: “So, she knew from the get-go that the painter was gonna talk about pussy stuff to the point where her camera was already setup for the convo lol. Both of them are just looking for attention, they know what they are doing, they both planned it for views.”
@r0timi_jnr: “I still remember when an online food vendor delivered food to my doorsteps and still told me after finish eating food I can also eat her join.”
@comentSTreet: “Haha 🤣 because she post am? If you know how many of these home delivery guys and customers services dey knack their customers eh 💔.”
While some commentators defended the woman for exposing what they viewed as predatory behavior, others suggested that the conversation might have been staged for clout or social media engagement, citing the readiness of the recording equipment and the man's oddly candid approach.
Regardless of opinions, the incident has reignited conversations around boundaries, privacy, and trust, especially when engaging with service providers and strangers. Many have advised caution and vigilance in sharing personal information, emphasizing the need for background checks and careful communication when dealing with unknown individuals.
The viral nature of the recording has also led to debates on the use of social media for “naming and shaming,” with some arguing that such exposures can serve as deterrents to others engaging in similar misconduct, while critics caution against public shaming without full context.
WATCH VIDEO:
Lady shared phone call conversation between her and a Painting/Artwork man that called her 15 minutes after she gave him her number after he has advertise his business to her🙆🏼♂️ pic.twitter.com/bPGowAvCYO
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) July 2, 2025