A wife who has been in a marriage for over 15 years has stirred controversy online after revealing her ongoing relationship with a side boyfriend and seeking advice on how to convince her husband to accept the affair after it was exposed.
The shocking confession came to light in a video posted by social media user @RitableP on X (formerly Twitter), where the woman openly discussed her marital challenges and infidelity.
Wife seeks help to convince husband to accept side boyfriend.
In the video, she explained that although she has been married for more than 15 years, she has maintained a romantic relationship outside her marriage, which her husband recently discovered. Rather than end the extramarital affair, she is now seeking advice on how to persuade her husband to accept the other man in her life.
Her words were: “I’ve been married for more than 15 years. I have been in a side relationship that my husband recently found out about. How do I convince my husband to let me keep the side dude?”
The video has since gone viral, drawing mixed reactions and heated debates across social media platforms. While some viewers expressed disbelief and anger at her audacity, others were concerned about the emotional and health implications for her husband.
See some reactions below:
@AI8MyJob: “Is no one going to mention that she is putting her husband’s health and life at risk??? He thinks he’s in a monogamous relationship, but she’s exposing him to everything including HIV without his consent.”
@thealexisJnr: “The woman puts her, in her place. She trew her into the mud. She is not even ashamed asking such question.”
@Timeless414: “Women are on a roll to outdo themselves; when you think you have seen or heard it all, they just blow you away.”
@flourish007: “It’s the audacity for me. She should be kicked out of the marriage. No man can stool this low really.”
@DOldj94: “She’s a whore, she doesn’t respect her husband and the husband lacks self respect.”
WATCH VIDEO:
“I have been married for 15 years and I have a side dude, but my husband found out.
Now, how do convince my husband to allow me to keep the side dude”
Thank you, for putting her and her selfishness in the mud.
“Women are loyal to their feelings”
Women don’t love men!!
Rita pic.twitter.com/bOps2GaoZ2
— Rita (@RitableP) May 15, 2025