A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to share a thought-provoking piece of advice with men regarding marriage. She strongly urged men to post any woman they intend to marry on social media before taking the big step, as this could help them uncover her past and determine if she was ever involved in prostitution, popularly known as ‘runs’.
In a post shared on her page, the lady explained that making a public post about a potential wife can serve as a form of background check, enabling men to discover if they are truly marrying a good woman, someone who is already married to another man, or even a former prostitute.
She went on to express her concerns about the current generation, popularly referred to as "Gen Zs," stating that their behavior has become increasingly unpredictable. Due to these uncertainties, she emphasized the importance of verifying the true character and past of a woman before proceeding with marriage.
According to her, she was inspired to share this advice after stumbling upon a social media post where a man publicly apologized to another man for unknowingly marrying his wife. The incident, she noted, is a cautionary tale for men who fail to conduct due diligence before settling down.
In her words:
“I’m thinking, maybe before you marry a woman, post her on social media platforms to know if she was once into runs/hookups or if she is someone else’s wife. There is a way men look out for each other because these Gen Zs are moving weird. No one is a saint, but there are some people you shouldn’t dare put in your house. Just saw a post where a man apologized to another man, saying he didn’t know the woman he married was already someone else’s wife.”
Her post has since sparked reactions on social media, with many people expressing mixed opinions on whether or not posting a potential spouse online is a reliable way to verify their past.
