A pastor’s wife has shared an important piece of advice for women, urging them to thoroughly check their fiancés’ gbola before committing to marriage. She opens up about her personal experience of almost marrying a man with what she describes as a “micro manhood,” warning women to be aware of such intimate matters before saying yes to the relationship.
The pastor’s wife, who is also a lawyer, highlighted a growing concern within marriages: sexual issues. She revealed that a significant number of marriages are falling apart due to these challenges, and she has witnessed firsthand the impact of sexual problems in courtrooms as couples seek divorce. According to her, the lack of conversation around sex, especially in church communities, often leads to confusion and issues in relationships.
Reflecting on her upbringing in the Deeper Life Bible Church, she shared that she was never educated on sex. She explained that during her time in the church, discussions about intimacy were avoided, despite the fact that even the pastor’s wife had multiple children. She expressed her concern about this silence on the topic, which ultimately led her to take on the role of advocating for sexual sincerity in courtship.
In her post, she writes, “WHAT IS THE SIZE OF YOUR FIANCE’S GBÓLA? I was raised in Deeper Life Bible church & I always sneaked out of the house to church whenever they have women’s seminar. I got really concerned over the years how SÉX was never discussed in any of these meetings. I mean, everyone including our then pastor’s wife avoided the topic but she had about 5 children at the time,” she wrote.[/p>
She goes on to emphasize that as a lawyer, she has witnessed several people who claimed to be in love, only to end up in court for a divorce due to unresolved sexual issues. “My mouth no fit talk wetin my Facebook and WhatsApp inbox don see via people having such problems in marriage,” she adds.
With this in mind, she stresses the importance of advocating for sexual sincerity during courtship. She encourages couples to ask certain crucial questions before getting married to ensure they are fully aware of each other’s sexual expectations and history. According to her, couples should not compromise their sexual purity but must be open and prayerful when asking the following questions:
1) What is your body count? (Meaning how many people eee don knàck!)
2) At what age did you start having sèx?
3) Do you have history of any STD or erection issues?
4) Do you/would you enjoy sèx?
5) Is there any regular séxual activity between married people you have problem with, e.g licking of plate?
6) In a day/week how often would you like to have séx?
7) What is the size of your gbóla? (VERY VERY IMPORTANT)
