A Nigerian woman has sparked controversy online by claiming that many married women struggle with bitterness and depression because they constantly go through their husbands’ phones.
The lady, identified as Kate Chinagorom Eze, shared her thoughts in a post on Facebook, where she argued that snooping on their partners has led many women into emotional distress and even physical illnesses.
According to her, being in close contact with numerous married women has given her insight into their struggles. She highlighted that their habit of constantly monitoring their husband’s phone activities has contributed to their unhappiness and deteriorating health.
She wrote:
“Having women in a closer community has opened my eyes to why many of them are bitter and depressed. One of the major reasons is that married women feed on their husbands' phones like food, which has caused many different types of illnesses,” she wrote.
She went on to share a story of a woman who became addicted to checking her husband's phone and eventually suffered severe health consequences.
The woman reportedly had trouble sleeping as she stayed up late, monitoring her husband's calls and messages. As a result, she developed health complications and had to rely on medication.
In another instance, Kate recounted how a woman got into a car accident because she was distracted and overwhelmed by a message she had seen on her husband's phone. The message was from her husband’s ex, and even though there was no concrete evidence that they were still involved, she obsessed over it.
Despite her husband's reassurance that there was nothing going on between him and his ex, the woman did not believe him. Her insecurities led her to confront the ex-girlfriend, who, out of anger, allegedly fabricated false claims to stir trouble in the marriage.
This confrontation took a toll on the wife, resulting in her being hospitalized for several days due to stress-related complications.
Kate concluded her post by warning women against allowing their curiosity and insecurity to ruin their peace of mind and well-being. She emphasized that no matter what happens, life will always move on.
