A heartbroken Nigerian man has taken to social media to expose the shocking betrayal he experienced in his three-year relationship, revealing how he discovered his fiancée had been secretly involved with over 32 men.
His revelation was made anonymously through a popular social media platform, X (formerly Twitter), where he detailed the painful moment he uncovered her infidelity and how it shattered his trust in relationships.
According to him, his relationship, which seemed perfect on the surface, came to a devastating end after he accidentally accessed his fiancée’s WhatsApp messages. The messages exposed her numerous affairs, including her frequent visits to hotels to meet with other men while pretending to be at work.
He recounted that his discovery happened when his fiancée ran out of data and asked him to share his mobile hotspot. While entering the password on her phone, an overwhelming number of WhatsApp messages flooded in, instantly exposing her secret lifestyle.
Among the messages, one in particular sent shockwaves through him. It was a conversation where his fiancée was allegedly discussing poisoning his food to "teach him a lesson."
His full statement reads:
“Good afternoon, Agba. First off, I appreciate all you do for the men in this house. Let me go straight to my experience with women because it is something I never saw coming.”
“I was engaged to a woman for almost three years. We lived in the same neighborhood, and I was always moving between my house, work, and sometimes her mother’s place.”
“One day, she ran out of data and asked me to share my hotspot with her. I turned it on, and since she needed the password, she handed me her phone while she stepped into the kitchen.”
“As soon as I entered the password, WhatsApp messages started flooding in like a jet.”
“One particular message caught my attention, and it left me frozen. It read:”
“Her: ‘Do you remember I told you about my boyfriend? I saw him today, even though he told me he was traveling. I will show him pepper; I’ll poison his food tonight.’”
“Agba, since that day, I never ate at her place again! I was in total shock and kept asking myself, *What did I ever do to deserve this?’”
“I had traveled for work, as I am into real estate. Out of curiosity, I decided to go through her WhatsApp chats. What I found nearly drove me insane—over 32 men sleeping with my fiancée!”
“She would leave my house at 8 a.m., pretending to be going to work, but instead, she would check into a hotel close to my place, Room 110. In one chat, she told a man, ‘I need sex badly,’ and he responded, ‘But we had sex this morning?’ She replied, ‘I know, but I just want more before I go home.’”
“She even made plans to buy condoms on her way to another man's house after work, despite claiming to be exhausted from her job.”
“The final straw was when she lied about staying at her brother’s house. Unknown to her, I was actually at her brother’s house that night. I video-called her, showing her brother in the background. The moment she saw it, she ended the call and switched off her phone until the next morning.”
“Three weeks later, she suddenly told me she was pregnant. Agba, since the night I caught her, I hadn’t touched her! I just laughed and knew I was done.”
“That was how the relationship ended. Now, I just want to stay single and maybe have a baby mama—nothing more.”
As the post gained traction online, social media users flooded the comment section with mixed reactions. While some sympathized with the man, others debated whether his experience should discourage him from relationships altogether.
See some reactions below:
@Dnpassion: “You must have noticed from the way her Toto be, but you just didn’t want to give in to your curiosity. That Toto don finish, chai 32 men.”
@TowFunFun: “I was busy doing something when this notification popped up. When I first saw ‘32 men,’ I thought it was 32-year-old men. I had to check again. Wtf 😒 Omo this one long oo.”
@Jonehmk: “Hahah! Fiancée f¥cked over 32 men while living in the guy’s house? Chaii! Your ex-gf was actually running a mobile OS operation! Thank God you didn’t run m@d when the cover blew up to your face while checking her phone. Be thankful she wasn’t able to po!son you.”
@Generalprime1: “Yoooo this can’t be real, holy sh*t!! I thought women don’t like sex. What will make her leave her fiancé to have repeat sex with someone else?”
@Maryann973: “Truth is, you’ve never been in a relationship or maybe you were in the relationship alone. ‘I don’t like checking my partner’s phone’ story, that thing you’re running from, you will still meet it someday. Thank God for your life.”
@Maggiewitdsauce: “Did you vet her well before promoting her to fiancée? What were the qualities you saw in her? Because it’s clear you have been in a relationship with a big red flag from the start.”
@PrinceChuks0: “Why will anyone be in a relationship without having access to each other's phone? That’s the best way to build trust and also the best way to know who you are in a relationship with.”
@GodhandX01: “One day I will tell Agba what happened to a friend of mine—quite similar to this. The guy was so dull.”
@EricStranberg: “Baba, no be normal lady you go dey date. Na hookup babe you dey date, and you dey call hookup babe fiancée.”
@OkekeLinda15: “Over 32 gini?? Heiiiii!!! As in knacking them actively abi Wetin?? This one is called ‘Olakiriputu’… 32 gini?? Ikegwuru kpam kpam.”
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