Man raises concerns over his wife’s unconventional and passive-aggressive communication style in their marriage, revealing how she uses midnight prayers as a tool to express her dissatisfaction instead of addressing him directly.
According to the troubled husband, his wife rarely confronts him about issues in their relationship in a straightforward manner. Instead, she waits until the early hours of the morning—during her personal prayer sessions—to voice her frustrations, often disguising them as spiritual petitions to God.
In a message shared anonymously online, the man recounted several instances in which his wife aired her grievances during prayer time. One notable example was when he arrived home late at night in a drunken state. Rather than engaging in a conversation or expressing her anger at the moment, his wife chose to wait until midnight.
He narrated: “Please keep me anonymous. I have a problem with my wife. When I do something wrong, she doesn’t approach me directly. She waits for 12am and uses her midnight prayer to air her grievances.”
He continued, “The other day I came home in the AMs very drunk. Instead of being mad at me, she waited for 12am. In her prayer she said something like, ‘I pray for all men who leave their wives at home and go to drink the whole night to stop doing it.’”
Another incident that left the man bewildered involved his wife subtly referencing suspicions of infidelity during her prayers. “I don’t know what she saw, but in her last night prayer, she said something like she prays for Mbali to stop sending other people’s husbands dirty pictures,” he added.
The man further noted that even when his wife wants something from him, such as a gift or money, she won’t make a direct request. Instead, she incorporates it into her midnight prayers, hoping he hears and responds.
He concluded his message with visible frustration: “Even when she wants me to buy her something, she’ll say it indirectly during her prayer. I feel like one day she’ll cheat and say it during her midnight prayers. Isn’t it childish?”
The post has since sparked mixed reactions online, with many users sharing their opinions on whether the wife’s actions reflect creativity, spiritual maturity, or emotional immaturity. While some sympathize with the man and believe open communication is key in any marriage, others argue that the wife may be using prayer as a coping mechanism in a relationship where direct confrontation could lead to conflict.
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