Notable industrialist and billionaire’s wife, Shade Okoya, has shared her thoughts on her marriage, emphasizing that she has no regrets about marrying an older man. The 48-year-old entrepreneur confidently addressed the criticisms she faced from people questioning her decision to marry someone much older, stating that marrying an elderly partner has not caused her to miss out on any aspect of life or personal growth.
In a recent interview with BBC Yoruba, Shade reflected on her marital journey and openly stated that her decision to marry billionaire businessman Razak Okoya, who is currently 85 years old, has been a fulfilling experience. Shade married Okoya in 1999 when she was just 21, and despite their significant age difference, she explained that she has never felt deprived or disadvantaged in any way for choosing to marry someone older. According to her, the love and support she receives from her husband have made their union rewarding, and she has no regrets about her choice.

Shade’s candidness comes as a response to the judgments of some who may view her marriage as unconventional, given the significant age gap. However, Shade remains firm in her belief that her marriage to Okoya has been an enriching experience. She stated, “My husband has been very generous with me, and defends me anywhere. God said this is where I will be. We met each other, and he liked me and he did not waste time at all.”
She further expressed her happiness, emphasizing that her marriage has been nothing short of a blessing. Despite the years between them, Shade has always felt valued and supported by her husband, and she credited their relationship as being incredibly fulfilling. “I’m happy in my marriage to him. He is far older than me but I don’t think I ever missed out on anything because I didn’t marry a younger man,” Shade confidently declared during the interview.
Shade’s openness about her marriage provides a positive and empowering narrative for women who may face similar scrutiny or challenges in their relationships. By highlighting the strength and fulfillment she has experienced, she sends a powerful message about the importance of love, respect, and personal happiness in a partnership, regardless of societal expectations. With her heartfelt words, she continues to inspire others to embrace their own unique journeys without fear of judgment.
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Shade Okoya speaking about how generous and kind her husband,Chief Rasak Okoya has always been to her 🥹❤️ pic.twitter.com/EkP6amlyVn
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