Veteran actress Joke Silva has opened up on why she married her husband, Olu Jacobs, despite a 20-year age difference between them.
In a candid interview on the Leadership Podcast, Joke Silva shared that she married Olu Jacobs when she was just 24 years old, while he was in his mid-40s. This revelation sparked widespread interest, considering the age gap between the couple, which many would consider a significant difference. However, the actress was quick to explain that age was never a factor in her decision to marry him.
When asked why she chose to marry a man who was much older than her, Joke Silva disclosed that her decision was rooted in the deep love she had for him. She fondly recalled how she was completely captivated by his personality and presence, describing him as a "gorgeous person" who had a profound impact on her. She also shared an amusing moment when her sister, sensing how serious the relationship was, pulled her aside to advise her, saying, “Joke, this is the man to take to daddy.”
Despite the overwhelming support from her family, Joke Silva revealed that her father initially struggled with the idea of her marrying someone so much older. He was concerned about the age difference and how it might affect their relationship in the future. However, Joke's mother fully supported her decision, recognizing the genuine love between the two. Joke expressed her gratitude for her mother's backing during a time when societal expectations regarding relationships, especially those with age gaps, were more rigid.
Joke Silva also touched on the nature of their relationship, highlighting that despite the challenges they faced because of their age difference, the love and respect they shared for one another was always the driving force in their marriage. She emphasized that their relationship had never been about external opinions, but rather a bond that had stood the test of time. Joke and Olu Jacobs have now been together for several decades, and their relationship continues to inspire many in the entertainment industry and beyond.
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“I was in love with him… He was just a gorgeous person.”
Joke Silva talks about the almost 20 years age gap between her and her husband, Sir Olu Jacobs pic.twitter.com/8nCQj9vupY
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