A fan on Facebook has publicly praised popular actress Iyabo Ojo for the way she guided her daughter, Priscilla Ojo, towards choosing a life partner she believes is more suitable for her future, while steering her away from her longtime best friend, Enioluwa.
The Facebook user, who goes by the name ‘Democratic Evangelist’, took to social media to share his candid thoughts about the situation, applauding Iyabo Ojo for prioritizing her daughter’s emotional and marital well-being by endorsing her relationship with Tanzanian singer Juma Jux. He pointed out that this decision was in Priscilla’s best interest, as he views Juma Jux as a man who embodies the qualities of protection, provision, and direction, unlike Enioluwa, whom he accused of having ulterior motives masked under the guise of friendship.
In his post, he wrote;
“Above all, Iyabo Ojo is the one to be applauded for not allowing Eni’s fanfare around her daughter to interfere in her choice of husband. She painstakingly guided her daughter to a path which ultimately looks promising with a masculine man who’s ready to provide, protect, and direct her daughter — not a crying baby like Eni, whose only antics were to fantasize around her daughter with no guts, agility, manly presence, or boldness.”
The poster further alleged that Enioluwa had been pretending to be Priscilla’s close friend with the hidden intention of eventually marrying her. According to him, Enioluwa was never man enough to claim that space, and despite his proximity to Priscilla, she was smart enough to realize that he wasn’t the right person for her.
He went on to state: “Eni thought he would be considered to marry Priscilla by faking friendship, but even the girl was smart enough to know this is not the man for her. Everyone always wishes to marry their best friend, but at Eni’s age — above thirty — it’s questionable that he’s investing this kind of closeness with a girl rather than pursuing a serious relationship. Why allow another man to come all the way from Tanzania and snatch your so-called best friend from you? Eni was simply denied access and acceptance because he wasn’t man enough.”
Continuing his lengthy post, he harshly criticized Enioluwa’s approach and labeled him as an “emotional loser,” urging his friends and family to advise him to move on and stop lingering around someone who has clearly chosen another man.
“Let’s now ask ourselves the salient question: If at Eni’s age he was just doing friendship with Priscilla and they bonded like that, how long would it take him to have such friendship with another girl he might hope to marry? Eni remains an emotional loser. His brothers should tell him if he has any. He was just a 90 minutes plus extra time Simp. If he was bold enough, acted like a man, and upped his game, he would have married that girl. He was simply denied access and acceptability. He had to turn it into friendship, which is what Simps do. If a woman denies you, move immediately. In fact, act as if you’ve never known her before. The indices of friendship must return to zero.”