Popular Nigerian influencer and media personality, Enioluwa Adeoluwa, has recently slammed individuals who take pleasure in anticipating the downfall of other people's marriages. In a passionate post shared on his Twitter page, Enioluwa expressed his disapproval of such negative attitudes and called out those who engage in this harmful behavior.
According to Enioluwa, it is not only terrible but also deeply misguided for people to watch a couple tie the knot and wish for their relationship to fail. He further emphasized how unfortunate it is when individuals go to the extent of expressing their hate or negativity through public comments or social media posts. His words were direct and filled with strong disapproval of this type of mindset, which he referred to as bitter and unhealthy.
Enioluwa questioned why some people find joy in seeing others unhappy and urged them to reflect on the negative impact such emotions have on their own lives. He shared a crucial insight, noting that if the happiness of others triggers feelings of sadness or jealousy within someone, it is a clear indication that the person needs to address their inner bitterness. He encouraged individuals in this mindset to seek healing, as these negative feelings only take away from their own happiness and peace of mind.
He continued by stating: “It is a terrible thing to look at two people get married and all that is in your heart is hoping that one day it will go sour for them. Even worse, to actually pick up your phone and type that hate into a comment or a tweet.” Enioluwa further explained that holding onto such toxic feelings and spreading them only breeds more negativity in one’s life. In his view, harboring such bitterness only serves to deprive individuals of their own joy and contentment.
His message was a call for self-reflection and emotional healing. He encouraged everyone to understand that they must heal from bitterness if they want to live fulfilling, joyful lives. He emphasized that the kind of spirit that hopes for the failure of others, especially in their marriages, will inevitably rob one of happiness, no matter how much they may attempt to hide it.
In closing, Enioluwa urged his followers to focus on cultivating peace, joy, and positivity within themselves and others. He conveyed a message of self-love and the importance of maintaining a kind and supportive outlook on the lives of those around us.
